Saha ji Mala
In Hindu weddings, the "Saha Ji Mala" or "Milni Mala" ceremony involves the exchange of garlands (mala) between the bride and groom family, symbolizing their acceptance of each other and the start of their journey together. This ritual is a key part of the wedding ceremony and is often the first time the family persons sees each other as one family.
Elaboration:
- Symbolism:The garland exchange represents the joining of two families, not just the couple. It's a symbol of respect , bonding and acceptance between relatives .
- Ritual:The bride's and groom's close male relatives (fathers,brothers,uncles,and sometimes grandfathers)meet at the wedding venue. Each male relative of the bride greets the corresponding male relative of the groom by placing a garland around his neck .
- Significance:It symbolizes that the marriage is not just a union of two individuals but of two families. The garland exchange shows acceptance and bonding between relatives.
- Variations:The specific traditions and customs surrounding the varmala ceremony can vary between different communities and regions within India. However, the core meaning of acceptance, love, and the start of a new life together remains consistent.